Morning Routines
Establish a positive and happy morning routine for preschool days. For children over two, this may include encouraging your child to pack their own school bag, find their favourite comforter, or sing a happy ‘school day’ themed song. In addition, always give yourself plenty of time to get ready and arrive on time. Feeling late or rushed can cause children to feel extra anxiety.
Arriving at Montessori Academy
To ensure that your child receives the greatest benefit from the Montessori program, it is important to arrive before 8:30am. Once you have arrived, ring the doorbell and wait for the Centre Manager to welcome you the centre. You will be provided with a security card on your first day of child care, and shown were to sign in your child every day. The staff will also show you where your child’s locker is, the location of the lunch and sleep charts, and program and information display areas.
Saying Goodbye
Montessori parents who establish a consistent goodbye routine typically have better luck with successful goodbyes. Take a special moment with your child to say goodbye. Some of our current parents go with a simple kiss and a cuddle. Whereas others have established a ‘secret’ hand shake for child care! A special goodbye is a great way for your child to start their day feeling happy and reassured. When it is time to leave, don’t linger in the classroom, or stay for “just one more minute.” The best thing you can do is give your child a hug and a kiss at the door, let them know you love them, and reassure them that you will be back in the afternoon.
Pick Up Routine
It is important to be punctual when picking up your child. It easy to lose track of time, but no matter who is picking your child up, always be on time. If you are late, it can cause your child to feel more anxiety, and makes drop off the next time much harder. On your child’s first day of child care, it is wise to pick them up a little earlier so that they ease into their new routine.
Positive Daily Reflections
On the way home, establish a routine where you talk to your child about their preschool day. Focus on the positive aspects of their day, such as their favourite activity, or playing with friends. By consistently reinforcing the positive aspects of their school day, your child will learn that their new environment is a fun and happy place, and their feelings of anxiety will decrease over time.